No one condemns you for an unwanted pregnancy.
I know you’re scared but you don’t need to be worried it could have happened to anyone. Having a child is a natural thing and every mother knows that.
Think about this before you do something which you would regret
How to Check Unwanted Pregnancy
If you are not sure if you are pregnant, and you have reason to believe that the pregnancy could have occurred, I suggest that you do not use the Internet too much, but consult a trusted doctor.
Either way if you don’t have time for it or you don’t have anyone you trust go to the nearest pharmacy and buy a pregnancy test.
If you do not know when the menstrual period comes, the earliest time for testing is three weeks after your last unprotected intercourse.
Unwanted Pregnancy Advice
Consume sex responsibly, use protective equipment.
Use the pills with the doctor's advice and buy condoms at the nearest pharmacy.
Unplanned Pregnancy Options
What to do if unwanted pregnancy happens ?
1. Accept the child
Face the fact that having children and raising them is a natural thing.
"Okay, great, but I have no idea about it. I don't know how I'm going to take care of a child when I'm barely taking care of myself" - something like this probably comes to mind.
You are scared. And you are absolutely right, it is not easy. It is not easy at all, you will have to sacrifice yourself, you will have to dedicate yourself. You will have to become a better person, but in the end you will be happy.
And all the energy and effort will pay off.
Seek the support of people who love you and accept the child because he is yours.
If you do it the right way - you will never be alone.
2. Another solution for you is abortion
This decision is not easy to make, but today we live in a time when we often do not control every situation and sometimes for reasons known only to us we have to make a difficult decision. Be 100% sure you want this before you do it.
3. Giving the child up for adoption
Although I personally don't like and don't understand when people do this, again as the previously mentioned situation "you never know who has what problem"
It is up to you to make the decision.
How do I deal with unwanted pregnancy?
While it’s easy to write about this when in reality you get into a situation like this you don’t care at all. However, you will go through this better if you understand your current mental state. Try to understand your feelings and accept that you are in the juice
Try not to look at things as they are at the moment, even though the situation may seem hopeless and black at the moment. Try to imagine yourself happy at some point in the future.
What will it look like, where do you see yourself?
This will make it easier for you to deal with the current problem.
Find a person you trust. Take it easy, share the problem with someone, don't shut yourself in.
Seek family support first.
It is not necessary to present the problem to all family members at the beginning, if you think that it will upset you even more. Find one person you trust and trust them.
It would be great to talk to a specialist doctor you trust.
Why you should think carefully before having sexual intercourse?
Premature sexual intercourse is a common situation nowadays.
Adolescents encounter this on a daily basis, sometimes without even knowing what it can cause and what consequences it can leave both mentally and physically.
One physical consequence is unwanted pregnancy in young people.
Therefore, appropriate protection should be used, so that the baby does not conceive.
Even if a woman (girl) becomes pregnant, she should not give up the child and decide to have an abortion, because murder is primarily a sin, and certainly a child in a woman.
Also, from a medical point of view, abortion is not recommended from a medical point of view, because it can leave permanent consequences on the woman (girl).
What causes unwanted pregnancy?
Adolescents engage in sexual intercourse recklessly and without sufficient knowledge, thinking that it is something ordinary and fun, and in fact it is a very serious matter.
They indulge only for the sake of popularity in society and fun.
In schools, not enough importance is attached to sexual relations as well as talking about them. That is why parents should take on the role of teachers sometimes
Sex can be fun, but only if care is taken!
What should you know before decide to do abortion
There are a number of physical consequences of abortion and one of them is that a woman (girl) cannot get pregnant again after abortion, which means that there is a danger that she will never be able to have children again.
Young girls would fear environmental condemnation
They performed an abortion as soon as possible, with inadequate knowledge of who should perform the abortion. The abortion must be performed by educated doctors, experts who would know how to do the whole process correctly.
There are so-called "savages" who perform abortions on young girls solely for profit, even though they are not qualified to do so at all.
Just then anything can happen to a girl and this whole inadequate process can lead to death, as a result of heavy bleeding (in the worst case).
I think that much more should be directed towards sex education in order for adolescents to be more educated, in addition to reading a book and knowing what they are getting into. Girls can be educated by gynecologists.
Honest conversation with your partner will help you
It is very important that girls at that time have an open and honest conversation with their partner about what happened and that their partner directs them to give birth to a child and not to perform an abortion.
Partners at that time must not turn their backs on them, because In some way, they can save the life of their girlfriend.
The partner should stay with her, be there for her in the most difficult moments and support her. This is very important for girls in these situations.
It is very difficult to be a single mother, so you should be very careful during intercourse, until you are completely ready for parenthood. Protect yourself and avoid unwanted pregnancy
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